Reliving a Moment

2019-04-02 Reliving a Moment

The other night, Ger and I were lounging around after watching a not-so-good movie.  It ended with a predictable “boy and girl get back together and decide to get married” moment.  We both thought it would have been much more interesting if the girl had walked away from the relationship, but that likely doesn’t make for a satisfying ending for viewers.  Much better that hearts not be broken, and everything is tied up with a bow and a large engagement ring, right? Continue reading

Planning for the Future

2019-03-28 Planning for the Future

Several years ago, Ger and I sat down and did some planning for the future.  Separately, we wrote out our various short- and long-term goals and then compared our lists.  I don’t have a hard copy of what I wrote down, but I am fairly certain that one of my goals for our family was “have another baby.” Continue reading

Reclaiming the Morning

My husband and I have a long-standing arrangement on weekends. On Saturday morning, he sleeps in and I wrangle all of the kids. Up with Autumn around 6:00, breakfast for the older kids when they wander into the kitchen around 6:45… usually pancakes or waffles. By 8:00, I have left the house with Autumn in tow to go run errands for the week. The big kids have their morning screen time and Ger keeps sleeping. All of this lasts until about 9:30 when I return home from shopping, screen time is over, everyone is awake and the weekend day commences. Continue reading